PE is a common condition.
1 in 3
Men will experience PE[1]
[1]ScienceDirect, Journal of Men’s Health60s
or less may indicate PE[2]
[2]PubMed. PMID: 27652215What is PE and how do I know if I have it?
Ask a doctor,
Dr Chen Ee Song.
MBChB (UK)
What is PE?
PE, is one of the most common sexual concerns for men. Clinically, it’s defined as when a man ejaculates sooner than he or his partner would like, usually within about one minute of penetration, and finds it very difficult to delay or control.
In everyday life, PE might feel like climaxing almost immediately after sex begins, or even before penetration starts. For some men, it happens every time, while for others it’s occasional but still distressing.
PE is not rare. Research suggests it affects 30 percent of men worldwide, making it even more common than erectile dysfunction in younger men. The key difference from ED is that with PE, erections are usually normal, but the timing of ejaculation feels out of your control.
What causes PE?
Premature ejaculation is usually diagnosed based on experience and symptoms, rather than a medical test. Doctors typically look at three main factors.
The first is timing: does ejaculation happen within about one minute of penetration on a regular basis? The second is control: do you feel unable to delay or manage when you climax? And the third is impact: is the issue causing distress for you or your partner?
There’s no blood test or scan that can confirm PE, but a doctor may ask about your medical history, sexual history, and overall health to rule out conditions like prostatitis or thyroid problems.
Some men may also be asked whether this has been a lifelong pattern or something that developed later.
So diagnosis is really about understanding the pattern and its effects, not about a single measurement. That’s why open and honest conversation with a doctor is key to getting clarity and treatment.
When should I speak to a Doctor?
Occasional difficulties are completely normal. Stress or tiredness can all affect performance from time to time. A good rule is frequency. If problems happen more than half the time, or continue for several weeks or months, it might be worth speaking to a Doctor.
Another reason to seek medical advice is if changes are affecting your confidence, relationships, or overall quality of life. PE can create stress that builds on itself, making the problem worse.
So, if problems are regular, persistent, or beginning to worry you, it’s a clear sign to have a conversation with a medical professional.
What treatments exist?
Two main treatment formats are available, each designed to suit different lifestyles and needs. They can be used together for more severe cases.
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How it works
1.
Complete the intake evaluation
Take our online questionnaire to see if you're eligible for treatment.
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2.
Attend a free online consultation
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You'll learn about treatment options available and pricing.
3.
Receive your treatment
You'll place your order and it will be sent to your door.
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The most common questions, answered.
A doctor may recommend clinical treatments, behavioural therapies, or a combination of both. Together, these approaches can be highly effective.
Clinical treatment works quickly to improve confidence, while behavioural therapy and psychological support help address the underlying causes for long-term results.
Topical anaesthetics can also help reduce sensitivity. Some men notice immediate benefits, while for others it may take a few sessions to find what works best. Your health practitioner will guide you throughout.
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Most PE treatments are safe, but mild side effects can occur, such as tiredness, nausea, or headaches.
When your doctor recommends a treatment plan, you’ll receive detailed information about potential side effects. If you experience any issues, you can reach out to your health practitioner to discuss alternatives or adjustments.
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The truth is, there’s no single ‘normal’ time that applies to everyone. Research shows the average time is about five minutes.
PE is usually defined as occurring within about one minute, and feeling unable to control it. If this happens almost every time, and it causes distress for you or your partner, then doctors consider it PE.
If it happens occasionally, this is normal — it can happen when you’re excited, stressed, or in a new relationship. What really matters is whether it’s persistent and feels out of your control.
So, ‘too soon’ isn’t about meeting a set number of minutes. It’s about whether the timing consistently feels earlier than you want, and if it affects your confidence or intimacy.
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FAQs
How does pricing work with andSons?
To get started, you will need to book a free online consultation with one of our Doctors. This is required by law and makes sure you get a proper diagnosis, a treatment plan that’s right for you, and the chance to ask your doctor any questions.
Treatment plans start from RM40 per month. Every plan includes unlimited follow-up consultations and discreet delivery right to your door. If you choose a subscription, your medication is automatically refilled each month, you can set the timing and cancel anytime.
What PE medications exist?
There are two main types of medical treatments for PE; topical sprays or creams, and oral medications.
Topical treatments, often called delay sprays, usually contain numbing agents. They reduce sensitivity, work within minutes, are simple to use, and can be combined with other methods.
Oral treatments work on brain chemicals that help control things. Studies show it can double or even triple the time.
Both options are safe and effective when used correctly. Topicals provide quick, on-the-spot support, while oral medications work through the nervous system for more systemic control.
Some men use one, others a combination, depending on lifestyle and preference. The key is that proven, effective treatments exist and can make a real difference.
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